The Girl In You After Marriage

My creative muse is  back in action. This is my first blog after marriage so what else can the topic be rather than life post marriage. So we girls dream of marriage at some point of time( we  dream of that prince charming coming on a horse, who would take us away to some far off unknown castle and then leading a life like a princess), well heloo.. wake up that was just a  dream… oopz my dream bubble was pricked and  uffffff it goes.. so reality is  far different…

You believe that your husband will be matured enough to handle your childishness and playfulness and you tend to look for a matured husband. And its after marriage you realize “ hez just an overgrown male child’ …  And so until then u consider yourself a girl and now you are supposed to be a ‘WOMAN’( yes you read it right, woman in block letters)..  The expectations are high on you, you are supposed to do everything which until then was alien to you.Sometimes the girl in you even refuses to accept the fact that you are married.  You wish you could go back to being that lazy lass..When you can get up late, wait for your coffee to be given by mom, eat your breakfast at lunch time, keep your legs on the sofa, sing and dance along with the songs on tv, yell at your mother, sleep through after noon, and remain awake through midnight with that green light blinking on FB, take shower in the evening…… and all those lazy things…

But you or a part of you naturally tend to change… a transition from that girl to woman take place… You do all those things for your husband which you would not have done even for yourself… like  ironing  his clothes, getting up early to cook for him,.. while at home even after your parents scream at you hundred times you lazily refuse doing these things… But sometimes all these are worth when you see that cute smile on your husband’s face when he drinks that cup of coffee made by you after a tiresome day at work or appreciates you for your half baked cooking skills. Its great to have someone all for yourself, someone who makes you feel secured, whose shoulders are there to lean on.

But at the same time its not easy either. Your husband can remain a boy even for some more years, but  you are supposed to be a woman from the moment you get married and its far too challenging, and these days you are expected to be not just a woman but superwoman. But I guess God has already installed all the necessary equipments to transform you into a woman at the required time.  You tend to do things automatically.But deep inside your heart  you always wish to remain a girl sans your age.To be carefree about things, to sleep without anyone to disturb you, to be all alone in your room with lights off listening to some nice romantic numbers, watch your favorite tv channel, to talk over phone with your friends hours together, go out for a movie with them, to sit by the window side and enjoy the rainwhile reminiscing . Being a girl is much more than being a woman. So all the woman out there cherish that girl inside you, never let her die. Without that girl you can never flourish into a woman. Keep pampering her, its she who inspires you to be a woman. So though its a bit late I would like to wish all the women out there ‘A Happy Girl’s day’.